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 Letter From Kargil 

"I am quite a sight now with an unkempt beard and vaseline cream all over my ugly face to counter the icy winds. Please tell maman that combat is an honour of a lifetime and I would not think of anything less. What better way to serve the nation. I am proud to be in Infantry and especially in our illustrious Battalion". So wrote Major Padmapani Acharya to his father, Wg Cdr. J. Acharya, who lives in Hyderabad in Hastinapur Colony. He wrote this on 19th June 1999 from somewhere on the Kargil front. Nine days later, on June 28th, near Tololing, he downed four enemy intruders in a hand to hand combat and laid down his own life.

One year has passed. The road in Hastinapur Colony leading to the house of martyr Major Padmapani is now named after him. Life is going on, but how? Especially for his young wife Charulata and mother Vimala
Acharya.

An occasion to get an inkling of this presented itself when the two of them arrived at the Rajasthani Snatak Bhavan opposite the Ramakrishna Theatres. The Hyderabadi poets had reacted to the Kargil situation strongly and had written poems. A collection of these poems, 'Sarhaden bula rahi hai' brought out by Geet Chandni, was to be released by martyr Padmapani's wife Charulata.

While releasing the book, Charulata was too young and emotionally moved to say a few words. Instead, her mother-in-law Vimala
Acharya spoke. The coming of Charulata, the release function and the speech by Vimala Acharya were all significant because it was for the first time after the martyrdom that Charulata was stepping out into a social function. Vimala Acharya's speech was seeped in blunt realism and emotional upheaval. Right from the opening
sentence it began to get etched on the listener's mind. She thanked Geet Chandni for inviting her daughter-in-law to release her poetry-collection and said, "This is not the time to express sorrow or shed tears. I am a mother and it is my duty to safeguard the family members from sorrow at any cost. That is why I try to bear the brunt of all sorrows. I am a human being and I too get hurt easily. But I want my family members to be saved of such hurts, such pains".

After my son's martyrdom, we were showered with affection and love. In every field, be it art, theatre, music, dance, military, business or education, there was a strong goodwill towards all of us. My daughter-in-law is very young. How can she bear the hurt and the pain. She never went out. She did not concede to any of their invitations. I know, this gave rise to talks in some quarters. They said that we were not allowing her to come out. That we wanted to hog all limelight and publicity. I have lost my son. How can I derive publicity out of him? But as a mother I wanted to protect her from sorrows. I myself am not a veer-mata. I am only a veer ki mata ( I'm not a brave mother. I am only a brave son's mother).

Today she has recovered her poise. She is ready to face people, pain and sorrow. Her tolerance has increased. That is why I have brought her out for the first time to this august gathering of poets and literateurs. I have brought her out so that you all can bless her. From now onwards she'll go everywhere. She has a little daughter, Aparajita. She will educate her and make her into a brave daughter.

Yes, make her into a brave daughter. That's what martyr Major Padmapani had wished. For, he had concluded his last letter to his father with a piece of advice: "Tell a story a day from Mahabharata to Charu, so that your grandchild imbibes good values."

This is our Kargil hero. This is our Kargil wife. And this is our Kargil mother.

- Anil Ekbote
 
 

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